Today for me was another bad day ... (And yes again ...) It's been 2 years since my mother left my dad ... I remember like it was yesterday ... In addition to all my grandchildren many problems, I had an everyday situation which acts as a slap in the face ...
I say mundane because it's about facebook lol. I changed my status as usual and somebody just came like this. When I wanted to rewrite it, it said I was not his friend ... Strange, am jme said ... So I made a friend request thinking it is a mistake and I wrote: "You do not want to be my friend: (hahaha. .." A few hours later, he wrote to me as what he thought he had never really been my friend and he had enough problems without having to read those of others ... It Then I turned on! Facebook can be a wonderful tool for communication and for finding people, but it can and is extremely trivial. In 20 minutes, I removed over 250 "friends".
I'm dilema for several weeks to know what place I occupy in people's lives ... and if I deleted as many people in so short a time is surely that this knowledge are not people who I see a loved one.
Thanks to this person today, I am liberated. (Ok this is just the beginning of a very long process ...) Freed from wanting to please everyone ... My life looks Not all my colleagues at work, or all my old classmates. I do not want to be nice to everyone in order to be accepted. Where is the problem is that I do not like rejection ... I do not want to dismiss me by the people ... But I think the whole problem of the ...
If I managed not to worry about what people think, I'll get better day by day ...
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